Diamond and Poo Video

Here's the video that I was telling Solid about on our call the other day. She had been talking to her son about "being yourself"--a term that PUAs shy away from and that I personally had had a hard time with: when I was "myself," I would say rude things and lose friends. On the PUA side, guys think, "Well clearly being myself doesn't work, because I can't get a girl!"

In this video, Jamie Smart uses a great analogy to describe why this happens and what it really means to "be yourself":